What do Dai Nam University students say about virginity?

Posted date 06/12/2018

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Posted date 06/12/2018

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In feudal society, virginity was a measure of a woman's virtue. A few years ago, virginity was still a controversial topic with many conflicting views. So, what is the view on virginity in modern society today? Let's see what young people think, perceive and say about virginity!

The DNU Confession page recently stirred up a story about a former student of Dai Nam University sharing about the issue of virginity. This girl had a student relationship and gave her virginity to her lover. At the present time, the girl has a new boyfriend and is preparing to get married. However, the fact that she is no longer a virgin always makes her feel uneasy and haunted. This girl is very hesitant between two options, should she tell her future husband the truth or go to a medical facility to have her virginity repaired and hide the truth.

The story of a former student of Dai Nam University shared about the controversial issue of virginity on social networks.

The story of a former student of Dai Nam University received a lot of attention and sharing from the online community. The issue of virginity and love between couples is viewed and evaluated by young people with many different perspectives. Besides the opinions shared and sympathized, many young people reacted and even expressed the opinion that there should be no sex before marriage.

In love, is virginity everything?

Sharing his views on the issue of virginity, DA - a second-year male student at Dai Nam University said: "In love, virginity is not everything". DA himself has had several relationships, in which his first relationship began at the age of 15. Graduating from high school was also the time when he and his girlfriend started "that thing". After breaking up with his first love, DA had a new lover and having sex during the time they were in love was inevitable.

“I think sex is a normal physiological need of humans, especially when we love someone. We should not be too serious about this. It doesn’t matter to me whether my lover is still alive or dead because in love, virginity is not everything…” DA shared.

TN – a first-year student at Dai Nam University expressed her opinion: “I do not criticize but also do not advocate… In modern society, virginity is not a measure of a girl’s virtue, and is not the deciding factor in the stability and happiness of love or marriage. However, in love, honesty and sincerity are very important. If I were the older sister in that story, I would choose to share honestly, absolutely not hiding anything.”

Sharing the same opinion, TA - a student of the Faculty of Information Technology, Dai Nam University shared: "Young people have the right to decide their own behavior, as long as they feel happy, know how to protect themselves and avoid unwanted consequences..."

In love, is virginity everything? (Illustration)

Should we "eat rice before the bell rings"?

When asked how he felt if his lover was no longer a virgin when he came to him, NDT - a first-year student, Faculty of Information Technology, Dai Nam University frankly said: "I don't feel comfortable". To T, premarital sex is "eating before the bell rings" and is not in accordance with moral standards.

NDT currently does not have a girlfriend and always hopes to have a pure and complete first love. “However, if that does not happen, I need my girlfriend to share everything honestly. Absolutely no hiding,” T emphasized.

Sharing the same opinion with NDT, T.D - a student of the Faculty of Nursing, Dai Nam University also defended the view that virginity is very important to a girl and can affect love between couples.

T.D explained: "Although love depends on many factors, I still think virginity is one of the factors that affects this issue." However, according to T.D, men do not have the right to criticize women who have lost their virginity and if they love, they must accept everything, including the shortcomings of the person they love.

So what about you, what do you think about virginity, please comment to share your views!

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